Question
How does the autonomic nervous system influence emotional regulation and resilience?
Answer
A well-regulated nervous system allows individuals to move fluidly between different states, adapting to stress while maintaining emotional balance. The goal is not to avoid stress responses altogether but to cultivate the ability to return to a "green zone"—the ventral vagal state associated with rest, connection, and resilience. This state fosters emotional regulation, enhances relationships, and supports overall mental well-being.
Dysregulation occurs when individuals become "stuck" in either an overactivated state (sympathetic fight-or-flight response) or a shutdown state (dorsal vagal freeze response). Some individuals fluctuate between these extremes, leading to instability in emotional and physiological responses. Understanding these patterns can help guide therapeutic interventions that restore balance.
A key concept in emotional regulation is titration, which involves processing emotions in small, manageable increments rather than overwhelming the system. Techniques from somatic experiencing, such as engaging in body-based exercises and developing a vocabulary for physical sensations, help individuals recognize and regulate their nervous system responses more effectively. By learning to notice and release activation before settling back into a calm state, individuals build resilience and improve their ability to cope with stress.
This Ask the Expert is an edited excerpt from the course, ‘Building Emotional Regulation Skills,’ presented by Kelli Underwood, MSW, LCSW
